Breaking My Silence – Why I Have Been Away For So Long

Yes it’s been a hot minute since I wrote anything here. I hate being morbid, in fact I specifically force myself to be cheerful even in my darkest hours, I mean how bad can things really get?

Well for me and my family they did a few weeks ago when I lost my Daddy after a short illness with pancreatic cancer. It pierces my heart and still brings tears to my eyes as I write this and perhaps it’s too soon to talk about the whole thing in any diplomatic way but I thought an explanation was in order for why I’ve been away so long.

In the last few weeks I’ve just about mustered enough strength to carry on running my business BHI but I’m afraid that my personal blogging fell into the ‘to do’ pile. But I’m back now and I will be on to happier tidings with hair videos to follow soon.

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  • Vanessa H

    So very sorry for the loss of your father. I feel your pain for I also lost my dad to cancer. We were very close. My prayers go out to you, and your family in this very hard time. We do miss you, but take all the time you need to get yourself together. Your good memories of your dad, family , and your passion for helping people obtain healty hair , will help keep you going.
    God Bless.

  • jmdean25

    Alma, I’m so sorry.

  • Loo

    Sending my condolences. So sorry for your loss, Alma.

  • Miss Deveraux

    Alma, so sorry this has happened to you and your family. Hope that things get better in the new year.

  • songstress187

    so sorry for you and your family”s loss

  • Joclyn Brigette Murdock

    So sorry for the loss of your dad Alma. Sending a hug your way.

  • Hey Alma,

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Heaven gained an angel in your father. When I lost my dad 15 years ago, I didn’t talk for 2 weeks. Take as much time as you need. Don’t rush through whatever emotions that you’re feeling and know that your dad may not be next to you but he lives through your love.


  • Nadine Fletcher

    Oh my Goodness this hit me like a ton of Bricks!. It brought back memories of losing
    my own father to a massive heart attack!. Take all the time you need. LOVE to You.

  • Sunny

    My condolences.

  • Pam W

    Alma, I’m so sorry to hear of your father’s passing on. It takes time to get through this, however, you’ll find that he will always be with you in spirit. God Bless.

  • I’m sorry for your loss Alma, my prayers are with you and your family.

  • I’m so very sorry for your loss Alma. My sincerest condolences for you and yours.

  • Thanks everyone 🙂 I appreciate you all commenting.

  • TMW

    So Sorry for your lost. I lost my father to prostate cancer in 2008 and I’m still trying to get back to “normal”. I recently realized without my dad I will never have normal as I used to know it, I just have to get to this… whatever this is… prayers for you and your family.